How do you break into a guarded person?

How do you break into a guarded person?
How to get someone to open up:

Consistency is key.
Practice active listening.
Ask questionsbut not too many.
Demonstrate sharing and self-disclosure.
Lean on nonverbals.
Let them know you value your relationship and ask what they need to feel safe.
Acknowledge your own desires.

How to get someone to open up:
  1. Consistency is key.
  2. Practice active listening.
  3. Ask questionsbut not too many.
  4. Demonstrate sharing and self-disclosure.
  5. Lean on nonverbals.
  6. Let them know you value your relationship and ask what they need to feel safe.
  7. Acknowledge your own desires.