What makes a couple incompatible?
What makes a couple incompatible? In incompatible relationships, it’s difficult to meet one’s sexual needs and expectations. People are either physically a bad match; have different libidos; one of them lacks the desire to satiate the other, or is restrained by a taboo that he or she deems impossible to overcome.
Is it true that your love language is what you lacked as a child?
If you really, truly value something so strongly it defines the way you give and receive love, your love language must be what you lacked throughout your life. Don’t we all want what we’ve never had? If your love language is words of affirmation, encouragement and support may have not been in your childhood vocabulary.
What happens when love languages aren’t met?
If two partners aren’t on the same page, however, of if they don’t understand each other’s love language, it can lead to hurt feelings and misunderstandings. “It’s important to understand your partner’s love language because that is how he/she likes to be treated,” author and coach Angie Nuttle tells Bustle.
What hurts a person whose love language is acts of service?
Unjustness: If the love language of acts of service is about nonverbal cues to show affection (i.e, household chores or thoughtful gestures), the opposite would be actions that show thoughtlessness or the withholding of services altogether.
